Single mother in need of help

September 30, 2019
Tamar O鈥橦aro

Tamar O鈥橦aro, 29, is a single mother of four who is struggling to provide for herself and her children.

She has a 10-month-old baby girl, a four and an 11-year-old daughter, and a six-year-old son, and is struggling to make ends meet.

The 29-year-old says she had to press pause on a business she was operating.

鈥淚鈥檓 struggling because I鈥檓 not working because my cookshop 鈥 I started it since September 2018, but since April of this year, I had to return the pots which I borrowed. I鈥檓 the only one that has to be finding food and everything for my four children. My last daughter, sometimes I don鈥檛 even know how I find pampers for her, it鈥檚 just the mercy of God and the grace of Him.鈥

Though it has been a month since the new school year started, she told THE STAR that her children are still unprepared for school. 鈥淚 am a mother of four children and three of them just started school today. My oldest daughter, she suppose to be doing PEP and going to grade six. Yesterday, I got only three skirts for her and I have her PE top but I don鈥檛 have any school blouses for her. For the others, I don鈥檛 really have uniform. I have one khaki pants for my son and two shirts.鈥

She has been rummaging through places that help the needy, hoping to be assisted. 鈥淪ometimes I come down to Father Ho Lung to get stuff and come to places where I hear that I can get stuff but sometimes it鈥檚 to no avail. Sometimes it鈥檚 too late and it鈥檚 hard to find the bus fare coming back and forth. I鈥檓 struggling now but I鈥檓 trying to sort myself out to get a job so I can be able to fund them and take care of my four children,鈥 she said.

Living conditions

To make things worse, her living conditions are far from ideal. 鈥淓ven the house that I鈥檓 staying in, in Castleton, is the house my parents used to live in鈥hey don鈥檛 live there anymore. I鈥檓 sleeping on a sponge for so long now. The kids will roll and the sheet comes off and then I have to be picking sponge from their hair. I find myself having to lie, even though I don鈥檛 want to do it just to get help. I鈥檓 not fond of that,鈥 she said while holding back tears. 鈥淭oday I just got two bags. I went on the road yesterday and I tried a place but I don鈥檛 know if I鈥檒l be successful yet. They took my resume, so, hopefully, I can get a work and just believe in God for what he is.鈥

Despite her prolonged struggle, she still believes God is protecting her. 鈥淚f I could get my restaurant started up back, I could do something myself. Get some pots or a bag a rice, chicken back or do fries, hot dog. I鈥檓 grateful to God for sparing my life. I have four kids and no disease, no sickness, all of them are well and alive and rest assured, I know that God is gracious and God is on our side.鈥

Persons who want to help Tamar O鈥橦aro can contact her at 876-882-3698.

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